To Love a Man

To love a man is easy, at times. But alot of times it can be difficult. To love a man you have to understand him as well as his wants and needs. Many men dont require much but they need unspoken things. Like women, sometimes they need to be read and paid attention to, in order to even know that they need something. What I have learned is that men need the same thing women do. They need to feel loved, appreciated, protected, cared for, supported, and at any given time they need to know that losing them is a lost you cant bare and that you will do anything to ensure their happiness.

 

I find that to love a man is easy, at times. But alot of times it can be difficult. Especially when he is going through the trials and tribulations of life. It can be things with his family, his friends, or even his personal life. Maybe he is not where he feels he should be professionally or maybe he is just not happy with his surroundings. Those things take a huge toll on men especially those that want more for themselves. For instance a man that is use to providing for his family suddenly loses his job. The emotional and mental toll of that situation is much worse than the financial. A man looks at being financially secure as his ability to take care of his family and if that is taken away, many times a man feels as if he is less of a man. But as a woman, his woman, you cant let him feel that way. To love a man matters most when he is feeling like less of a man. They say that a woman's loyalty is tested when a man has nothing and that man's loyalty is tested when he has everything. One of the most important things to a man is loyalty.

 

To love a man is easy, at times. But even when it is hard its worth it. Because if you love a MAN right, the way he deserves.. he will love you better than you deserve.